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Official Obituary of

Terry Kilmer

September 28, 1940 ~ July 6, 2025 (age 84) 84 Years Old

Terry Kilmer Obituary

Terry L. Kilmer September 28, 1940 – July 6, 2025

Terry Kilmer, 84, of Port Byron, NY passed away peacefully at St Joseph’s Hospital after a short illness. Terry was a lifelong resident of Port Byron and attended Port Byron School. He was employed with Conrail Railroad for many years. After he retired, Terry enjoyed fishing, traveling with his wife, Joan, and tinkering with his tractors.

Terry was predeceased by wis wife Joan, his parents, Mary and Fred Kilmer, and his sister Sharon Kilmer. He is survived by his twin brother, Gerald “Duke” Kilmer and brother, George Kilmer; his daughter Kelly (Mike) Laird, son Terry Kilmer, stepdaughter Pamela (John) Grzasko, stepson Russell (John) Stoneburg; grandchildren Michael Laird, Erica Laird, Matthew Driscoll, and Rachel Kilmer. He is also survived by many great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

Per Terry’s wishes, there will not be a service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Port Byron Fire Department.

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